One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids

New Episodes Every Tuesday

We dish...

  • Dispatches from the bedroom

  • Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure

  • My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids

  • Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it

  • No judgement advice for all partners

Recent Episodes

The Sex After Kids Podcast

Best Sex Books for Couples: Expert Picks for a Better Love Life

Best Sex Books for Couples: Expert Picks for a Better Love Life

Feeling like “roommates” instead of lovers? You’re not alone. In this episode, I share my absolute favourite sex books that every parent should have on their nightstand—plus the real-life stories and expert tips behind each pick.

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The Real Reason Your Partner is Avoiding Sex (And Why It’s Not What You Think)

The Real Reason Your Partner is Avoiding Sex (And Why It’s Not What You Think)

Find out the real reasons your partner is avoiding sex after kids (it’s not what you think it is)

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Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body During Sex

Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body During Sex

This week we have another bedroom dispatch from my sheets to your ears. I share these to normalize what real sexy times look like and to show you how my I use my own tools in my real life - so you can see who they work for you.

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Let’s Talk About Duty Sex (After Kids)

Let’s Talk About Duty Sex (After Kids)

If you are a parent you have likely at some point or another engaged in duty sex - sex that you had because you felt you had to or felt pressured to - to keep the peace or to keep your partner happy. This week we break down a study by Dr. Cami Hurst on Duty sex.

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Stop Avoiding Scheduled Sex and Do this Instead

Stop Avoiding Scheduled Sex and Do this Instead

In this episode of the Sex After Kids Podcast we break down your hangups about scheduled sex, four reasons to get over it anyways, and I break down my four step formula for scheduling a sex date that DOES NOT SUCK.

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Welcome to the Sex After Kids Podcast

Welcome to the Sex After Kids Podcast

The Sex After Kids Podcast is here - catch the trailer and binge the first 5 episodes.

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